Cats are subtle communicators. Once you know what to look for, you will understand your cat much better.
The tail
- Held upright, sometimes with a gentle curl at the tip: a friendly greeting.
- Puffed up: your cat feels frightened or threatened.
- Low or tucked: nervous or unwell.
- Fast lashing: irritation or overstimulation. Give them space.
The ears
Forward ears usually mean curious and relaxed. Ears turned sideways or flattened back can signal fear or irritation.
The eyes
A slow blink is often described as a cat kiss. You can slowly blink back to show you are relaxed. Wide, dilated pupils can show excitement or fear, depending on the situation.
Sounds
- Purring: often contentment, but cats can also purr when stressed or in pain, so look at their body language too.
- Chirps and trills: a friendly greeting.
- Hissing or growling: a warning to back away.
- Yowling: can signal distress, boredom or a medical issue. Talk to your vet if it is new or frequent.
Kneading and head-butting
Kneading with the paws and head-butting are usually signs of comfort and affection. Rubbing against you also spreads their scent, marking you as part of the family.
Helping your cat feel comfortable
- Offer high perches and hiding spots.
- Keep fresh water in several spots, and provide a cool resting place such as a cooling mat in summer.
- Let your cat approach you rather than picking them up when they are unsure.
This article is general information and not veterinary advice. If your cat's behaviour changes suddenly, speak with your vet.